Phaedra Parks Awful Mistreatment By Apollo Nida: Sickening To Watch The Abuse! (VIDEO)

Phaedra Parks Awful Mistreatment By Apollo Nida: Sickening To Watch The Abuse! (VIDEO)

In case you missed it, Real Housewives of Atlanta aired a new episode last night (and we recapped it right here) of the group ending their Mexican getaway and per usual, it was pretty explosive. This segment revealed some interesting confrontations that occurred between the cast members, most notably Greg and Nene Leakes getting into it with “acting like a b*tch” Peter Thomas. That scuffle saw Greg threatening Peter to a showdown over getting up in his wife Nene’s face following Kenya’s charity ball she threw in Nene’s “honor.” It all made for great television and was pretty messy. However, the most interesting story line continues to be that of Phaedra Parks and her criminal hubby Apollo Nida.

That Apollo keeps digging a deeper ditch for himself to be buried in and personally, my heart goes out to Phaedra. As you know, CDL has been closely following these two ever since word broke of Apollo’s fraudulent business practices and pending criminal charges. Mostly we have been waiting to see what involvement, if any, Phaedra had in Apollo’s schemes and if the Fed’s are going to indict her in conjunction with her husband. Well the more we get to see the couple interact on RHOA every week with the knowledge of the legal proceedings they were and still are facing, the more we become Phaedra supporters. Even if she is a criminal mastermind, she is also a mother and a wife who is being mistreated by her husband. It is sickening to watch.

The episode picks up where it left off last week, with Phaedra walking in to see Apollo chatting Kenya up privately in what looks to be the hotel bar where the crew is staying. Phaedra leaves the bar, rightly upset that Kenya and her husband are having a one on one discussion, to go back to her hotel room and sleep. Apollo meets her at their hotel room and after a brief conversation he leaves his wife sitting outside the door without a room key to get in at 2 am in the morning. The next day, Apollo greets Phaedra with a flower at breakfast in an obvious attempt to make amends.

Apollo continues his peacemaking efforts that day by arranging a pre-birthday surprise for his wife with the help of the other ladies. This is where Apollo really perturbed us. First, he brings a piñata for everyone to hit and it starts out as a lot of fun. Then someone finally breaks it open, and a bunch of condoms spill out on the floor. This drew a distinct look of criticism from most of the cast who were probably thinking, why the heck did he fill the piñata up with condoms for his wife? As the party wears on, a few of the guests like Kandi grabbed a microphone and made some kind and sweet remarks about Phaedra. Apollo then follows suit, grabs the mic and basically says two things to his wife. One, he thanks for having his kids and two, he wants to move forward from where they are. A blank stare is all that could be mustered following the super short speech.

Kenya Moore of course jumped on this incident in her confessional saying, “does anyone else hear the crickets?” Now at this point it becomes poignantly clear that she is a messy little jezebel. Especially when taken into consideration with comments her traveling companion Miss Lawrence made on the beach in her presence that day to Cynthia and Peter; Miss Lawrence shared that he thinks Kenya and Apollo have Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt chemistry. It was a highly inappropriate comment and it suggests that perhaps Kenya is busy stirring up the pot. Everyone knows that Miss Lawrence and Kenya are friends, but what a lot of folks don’t know is that Miss Lawrence has never been a Phaedra fan. Those two were probably talking about the Phaedra and Apollo situation when they were alone. It is definitely clear that shade was being thrown and it didn’t stop there.

Kenya had the group all sit down their last night in a setting that replicated the infamous pillow talk party, much to the dismay of everyone else who wanted to put that debacle into the history books and not re-live it. Kenya had prepared questions on cards just like Nene but promised that they weren’t as bad. Miss Lawrence pulled one that asked for a definition of cheating. After Miss Lawrence shared his definition of cheating, he shared his view that all men cheat. Then he threw major shade towards Apollo and Phaedra by boldly asking them what they thought. Apollo had the nerve to say that he agreed that not only men but also women cheat, saying “everyone cheats” to the group. Phaedra comments in her confessional that it wasn’t Apollo but Don Julio tequila speaking then, but the damage was already done. We all got to see what kind of man Apollo really is. Kenya then dismisses the men so the ladies can have some private time with each other.

Kenya used this opportunity to first jump on Nene’s case about her friend Marlo Hampton before turning her attention to Phaedra, who it seem was the person she really wanted to confront. Phaedra tells Kenya that she and her husband do not want to be friends with her. Then Kenya hits way below the belt and tells Phaedra not to speak for her husband, because he told her that he wants to be her friend. It was an ugly moment and the discussion did not end well. Both ladies agreed not to trust each other and the feelings of animosity between them jumped off the screen. As the ladies left to join the men and see what’s going on with the commotion of Peter and Greg’s fight, the camera pans to see Phaedra cuddled up tight next to her husband with a look of forlorn on her face.

Apollo has been wrong and he keeps proving it time and time again. From fraternizing with the enemy that blatantly stole him and his wife’s fitness DVD idea to throwing an embarrassing birthday party complete with a lack luster speech, Apollo is proving to be the jerk we have long suspected him to be. One of Apollo’s followers tweeted that his birthday speech sucked and he responded with his own tweet saying, “It was really good but they edited it & that’s something I can’t control.” Maybe Apollo did say more meaningful words on the mic at his wife’s party and they were edited out for entertainment sake but you can’t edit in the rest of his tom foolery. The condoms and cheating comments did not paint a picture of solidarity in his marriage with Phaedra at all and did nothing to help repair his tarnished personal image.

Phaedra please leave this dude alone. Focus on the repair of your image and business empire for the sake of your children. “A true southern belle knows her worth” and you are worth so much more than this. Seeing you so thin and stressed is troubling for your fans. Your girl Kandi Buruss was on Watch What Happens Live last night with Andy Cohen, and commented that you and Apollo are still together and not breaking up anytime soon to her knowledge. It is easy to understand you wanting to save your marriage and we wish you well either way, but Apollo is bad news. The world now knows that you were suffering through his actions and behaviors while supporting him in his legal troubles. During the Mexican getaway you guys were coming together to tackle his impending trial, the least he could do was support you as his wife and keep the Kenya drama away. He did the exact opposite.

This has been some filthy dirty laundry and we still need your help washing it all out. What do you think about Apollo’s behavior during the Mexico getaway? What do you think Phaedra should do? Let us know what you think about all this in the comments section below. We want to know your thoughts!



  • Barbara Jean

    Apollo really makes me sick!

    • Cyndy

      I’m with you Barbara Jean!

  • Barbara Jean

    I guess when he’s sitting in his jail cell he can think about what a jerk he is. And Kenya is no better.

  • Felip

    Apollo is a jerk. Phaedra needs to leave him. He is a snake slithering in the depths of lust. Its so obvious that he has a thing for Kenya. I guess you can take the man out of prison but not the prison mentality from the man. Apollo dipping into the man pool (phadera).

  • Letitia Owens

    I don’t have any sympathy for Phaedra. She is reaping what she has sown. She joined the cast portraying a false image and now the truth is being revealed. She didn’t marry a “thug” by accident. She married her alleged partner in crime.. Why should anyone be shocked by his behavior towards her? He doesn’t respect her phony image that is being portrayed for TV viewers. Apollo is responding to the real Phaedra, not the phony Southern Belle image.

    • Chrystella C Hart

      I agree Phadera is a big liar that why she is a lawyer

  • Racquel Garnette

    Apollo says that Phaedra is always angry with him all the time. Phaedra should tell Apollo to quit seeing Kenya not by telling Kenya to stay away from her husband. This whole fiasco is all on Apollo. Apollo put the condoms in the pina yana so Phaedra can sleep with another man. Apollo says that he doesn’t want to hold hands with his wife. But why did you marry her then. Apollo doesn’t know how to treat woman. He rather get his woman pregnant then hang out with other woman. I smell a divorce very soon for them. Phaedra can’t bring Apollo to court for child support because Apollo is not working. She can go for a seperation. Kenya is a whore and a husband stealer. She has never been married and she shouldn’t talk about other people business. Peter needs to stop budding in woman business and stop acting like a biatch!!!. Nene did the right thing of cussing him off in the kitchen. Greg sticking for Nene was the right thing to do. Peter should let the woman handle there business on there own. I think Peter wants to become a woman so he could be in some woman business. For Phaedra marrying a thug wasn’t a great idea but he is no good. Apollo wants to go sleep with other woman so let him do that. Pretty soon some woman will come forward and say that Apollo got them pregnant. Phaedra is better off with herself and raise her kids on her own. She does not need Apollo anymore.

    • TheSharperWon

      You nailed sooooooo many points. You can take the boy out of the “country” but in this case, you can not take the country out of the boy!

      • Racquel Garnette

        Thank you. I think i nailed everything about what happened on Sunday. Phaedra is going to do very well by herself. She lost her husband all because of Kenya and the woman he is hanging out with. If Apollo was working she will get child support from him. The way Apollo treated Phaedra wasn’t that nice from last week. I am going to stay tuned by next week episode.

  • drdebo cherry

    I guess maybe 25% of Reality TV is REAL-but even so- he doesn’t care for her and she does him- so that’s obvious and bad and she needs to cut her loses- and what women would think he’s sexy- he’s repulsive. But, she IS the ringleader and she DOES deserve what she sowed/is sowing.

  • IveSeenEnough

    Phaedra is an an insecure, jealous shrew who very seldom has anything positive to say. Apollo is tired of her because he doesn’t want to be tied down to someone who isn’t fun, adventurous, and free spirited. Phaedra is none of those things. She married the wrong guy and needs to own it rather than blaming the dysfunction on Kenya Moore.

    • Niggaz4Life

      So you would let your husband do what he does?

      • IveSeenEnough

        Well, since I’m a married man, married to a beautiful wife …. it’s unlkely that I’ll ever have a husband, LOL … but I don’t think that any self-respecting woman would stick around while her husband is dropping thousands of dollars in strip clubs (thousands that he only has because of her) and then suggest that the biggest problem in her marriage is some woman with whom her husband has a platonic friendship. Secondly, I think too many women in this discussion forum talk about what they would “Let their husband” do and not do. You cannot stop a man from doing anything he wants to do. The only thing you can do is control your behavior and how you react to it. If your husband wants to have a platonic friendship outside the marriage with someone that you despise you have two choices. Stay or go. If your husband wants to drop big money in strip clubs you have two choices, stay or go.

  • IveSeenEnough

    Phaedra is pretty?! LOL … she’s dumpy and frumpy and is wearing that ever present screw face twisted up in knots. Haha, there is no way Apollo wants to be tied down with her, especially with all the beautiful sistas in Hotlanta.

  • mrs. usa

    Kenya is a homewrecking skank. She’s been around every block there is to go and that’s why she’s trying to get a married man. At the very least, she would love to break up someone else’s home. This lady Is disgusting. This man has children. 2 little boys. Why would anyone want to destroy the lives of two little boys. Kenya is garbage. Inside and out. And that dude Apollo…he’s obviously not the marrying type. I hope Phaedra finds someone family oriented and educated like herself one day. Then these two low class idiots can go on and be @#*& buddies as much as they want.

  • ida brown-conerly

    why don’t she leave him alone? My heart goes out to her.

  • Antonese ferguson

    Kenya I don’t know what you look like or who you look like to me you look like a man lady I don’t know what you be talking bout when you called Phaedra fat take a look at yourself before you call people named with your man looking self

  • TheSharperWon

    Hmmmmmm, could be! They both lack character. Know I really know what the saying, “You can’t make a silk purse out of a sows ear means!” This show is simply about putting designer labels on ghetto hoochies!

  • TheSharperWon

    I am so not that into Kenya. Most of them are far too shallow for my taste. Deliver us Lord Jesus from this foolishness. I am beginning to like Cynthia and Peter. Somebody, somewhere has to keep the faith! You can’t simply put designer labels on hoochie momas and think they automatically become CLASS ACTS!

    • drdebo cherry

      I’m waiting for Peter to be implicated in the Phaedra/Appollo mess…

  • Racquel Garnette

    It is the truth about Kenya. Kenya is a whore and a husband stealer. She has never been married and she has no right to judge others. Apollo and Kenya deserve eachother. Kenya shouldn’t be friends with Marlo because Marlo has track record of the crimes she has committed. Marlo is bad news. I think that is true that Apollo is working Kenya to make Phaedra mad. Dating some jailbirds can be bad for some woman. Other jailbirds treat there woman right. Apollo has no sympathy for Phaedra he rather take care of himself.

  • Racquel Garnette

    For some guys who gonna go and cheat on there wives is not the marrying type. Apollo is a jerk and he is mr nice guy. Nice guys finish last. Apollo wants to find a woman to have his kids and that is it. When his sons grows up then they will know that there father is a cheater and a jerk. Cynthia didn’t need to address the issue about her husband with Nene for next week episode. Cynthia needs to divorce Peter because he is always in her friends business. She married the wrong guy. Between Cynthia and Peter there marriage won’t last either. Porsha did the right thing of standing up for herself on the trip with the girls. Nene and Peter will never get along with eachother. Phaedra has Kandi as her friend. Nene was getting bad by this season. She likes to talk about other people but when it comes to her she keeps her mouth shut. Mama Joyce needs to behave herself and stop interferring in her daughter relationships.

  • drdebo cherry

    THANK YOU- mosesknows- KNOWS!

  • IveSeenEnough

    You sound like the typical beasty … black, violent, unfeminine woman who would result to violence to solve your problems.

    • Emily

      Trash. You are classless trash. An actual waste of life who is unworthy of the women of which you speak. Because you are a failure at everything you do and have never considered taking personal responsibility for yourself, you sit around talking about the only black people trying to rise communally…the first people who rise to the occasion when it’s time to save your worthlessness. “Beasty”… ? Fool. Your gods are loser fools on the Internet who are the least masculine black males yet. Bitchy and catty whining about women like they, as men, have no control over their own destinies. “Beasty”…? You’re trash. Your choice in fool kings proves as such. You are of the lowest class and refuse to recognize it so you use “race” and “gender” as a crutch. Worthless… you are so worthless… you literally do nothing for the world. What it must be like to be a loser… blaming everything on everyone else instead of recognizing how LITTLE you did to make a better way for you and your family, if you actually have one. Shame on them for creating you though… you are a waste. Keep doing what you’re doing… you’ll still be doing it 10 years from now instead of getting your own life together. You are an actual loser…

      • IveSeenEnough

        .. and you;’re a Beasty

  • ljmo

    Phakdra has been shadra from the get go. You can’t tell me she didn’t know when her baby was due, the first one. She would always dance around the issue. Because she is a hippocrite. She got pregnant before marriage is afraid of her mother and her reputation. She has gone down hill ever since. Calls her new baby Mr. President. What an ass on many levels. She want’s to talk about other people being disrespectful.

  • dohib

    Yes, I can see where Kenya is all tat you say. But something is wrong. Kenya is beautiful, smart, etc. So to me, she should be like Cynthia. (with one or two children, on her first or second marriage. blah, blah, blah). Kenya is crazy. That simple. And she flirts hard with unavailable men (Man in Africa, Walter, and Apollo), then she puts them on front street (Chuck?). Crazy. Phaedra has two young children, so she really has to think about breaking up her marriage. Kenya doesn’t even want Apollo, she just wants to stick it to Phaedra. Apollo is immature, and doesn’t understand which side of his bread gets buttered. But, those two boys are the innocent victims in all of this.

  • mosesknowses

    Examining some of the allegations against Pastor Regina Bell explains a lot about why Phaedra has chosen to take the questionable deviant actions she has. As is said, ” The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. “

  • Racquel Garnette

    Peter is always in her friends business and he doesn’t treat Cynthia friends with respect. Peter has 7 kids and she think marrying him would make her happy no way. Cynthia has marry the wrong guy. Peter has a bad temper. For some guys who has a bad temper the woman needs to stay away. Why date a guy who has a bad temper ?….. Most woman should date a guy who has a good behaviour. Peter and Nene will never get along. But for Peter to speak to Kordell was totally uncalled for. Porsha explained her part of the story to the group was ok. Kenya was trying to act like Porsha was Kordell trophy wife but she wasn’t. Porsha took care of Kordell and Kordell wanted to control her. Controlling black men needs to go to boot camp and learn how to treat there woman right.

  • Bernadette

    I For One Thinks Kenya Is Jealous Of Phaedra And Apollo Marriage.She Wants The Marriage And Babies So She Wants To Ruin it For Phaedra. She Don’t Have A Man With Her Ol’ Lonley Ass So She Is Seeking Attention And appollo Is Enjoying Her Attention She’s Giving Him! I Personally Would Leave appollo And Put Him On Child Support And Let Kenya Deal With It.

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  • Sonya Norwood

    I feel like phaedra knew who she married and insults this man constantly a man is to stand beside you not underneath you she buries him as a man lets it be known in his face she is the bread winner however it does not give him the right to degrade his wife with kenya but people when your tired your tired and apollo is beyond tired of phaedra phony ass

  • Racquel Garnette

    This is all on apollo. Phaedra is looking after her son at home and where was Apollo. Out and about. Men like those who wants to be lazy and don’t help out there woman at home are no good assholes. Phaedra was breastfeeding her son and she needed help and he just stayed back. The babysitters had to take care of there sons when Apollo was never around. Why would a guy like that use a woman to have there kids then act lazy and try not to help up there woman around the house. Get some energy or something. For anyone who wants to blame Phaedra for not entertaining her husband needs to get out of here.

    • sidy

      Firstly, you become what you choose to associate with, or associate with what you want to become, Apollo Wife Decide To Marry An Uneducated ex-con, because of his pretty face, then she should be ready to face the consequences.

  • Diane69802

    Really? Then how did they manage to have 2 children?

    • mosesknowses

      Just a wild guess but just maybe they just..SCREWED? They are married. FYI…people don’t have to be wildly in love to do the dirty, boo. Drugs and alcohol can make people attractive.

  • Diane69802

    Kenya is ratcheting up the problems by flirting with Apollo and and doing things to make him look bad and make everyone think there is something going on…..she wants to shag that man! and Maybe because she can and would love to stick it to Phaedra….”I win Phaedra….twirl”

  • IveSeenEnough

    And you are a beasty…

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  • con

    Dumb a– show anyway! One of the members claims to be a star, give me a break. All of these reality people are a mess!

  • mosesknowses

    Apollo he be look like a horndawg in he diss Phaedra aways do stripper and ho’s throwing money money money. Disease dick and mind going to prisonland. Bye

  • Pam

    First off I’m not Kenya nor do I personally know her. I just feel that she tried to be nice to all the women on the show in the beginning and they all disrespected her in some way, shape and form. Even last year with the parties the girls would have. They kept inviting a man that clearly Kenya couldn’t be around and then laughed at her when she got upset. They never showed any regard for her as a human being. Then some of the women would keep throwing in her face that she’s not married with child and kept going on and on about she can’t comment on anything since she’s not married. The woman is old enough and smart enough to sensibly comment on anything. She very intelligent. Let’s talk about the fact that a little girl lost a mother. Anyone who is human would have issues with that. Any person would suffer with the pain of that. What I have issue with is that the woman tried to isolate her and throw in her face that she’s mentally messed up because her mother abandoned her. What kind of scum bags do that. They’re heartless and never treated Kenya like a friend so she got back at them with her antics. The rest of those women are like a rapist who goes back to their victims and taunts them. They’re disgusting. They got her to open up, then used what she on told them against her. They want everything but get upset if Kenya has a Bently or wants to advance. They keep trying to shut her down over jealousy and the fact that they all the women on that show are bald and disgusting looking. They all have wigs on because they’re too lazy to take care of what ever they had on their head. No I don’t know Kenya personally, but if I were to be lucky to meet her i’d give her a huge hug and tell her how much she’s loved by people who see beyond all the nonsense. Deep down Kenya is a wonder soul and I wish all the best for her and hope she finds Mr. Right.

  • Pam

    It’s not Kenya’s fault that Apollo is atracted to her. That was clear as day on the show. Phaedra had the opportunity to be friends with Kenya, but messed it up when she tried to play Kenya over the exercise video. The Phaedra started going around and laughing to people about personal info Kenya trusted her with and calling her mentally messed up because her mother abandoned her. That’s when Kenya started not caring anymore. Apollo wants her and Kenya laughs at it and messes with Phaedra to get back at her for the crap that she did to her before. As for a woman flirting with my husband, I really don’t care. It’s happened to me and never started fights with my husband because that’s what she wants and I never let another woman tell me how I feel. If Phaedra took better care of her self she wouldn’t care or be insecure because at the end of the day, her mans coming home with her. Many times I had woman try to even pick up my husband in front of me and he shut them down. I don’t even have to say anything.When a woman tries to get your mans attention, the best thing to do is ignore them and have fun with your man. Most woman who knows how to keep a man learned that since high school. A grown woman should have mastered the ABC’S on how to handle this. If not, their relationships break down or end.

  • Pam

    I really don’t care about how to spell the word mother. That’s irrelevant just like you and your two cents.If Kenya f@**s Apollo it’s because Phaedra led him to do so with her jealousy. Jealous and insecure woman always push their men away and into someone else bed. More focus on having a fun relationship than hating on any woman who looks your man way.

  • Pam

    Thank you, Nikki Anderson. I think Kenya’s a sweet person who has gone through a lot.

  • Pam

    Jealousy pushes a man away not bring them close.

  • abbyrose

    Oh please……shady married pollo so he couldn’t testify against her and he hates her guts. He’s probably starting to realize he’s been her Patsy for a long time now. Her house of cards is about to topple and Ms unsouthern Belle is about to be revealed for the career criminal she is. More like it.

  • abbyrose

    Shady only married pollo so he couldn’t testify against her…he hates her guts

  • Gail

    Phadera is a criminal! She is a partners with him in crime!

    • sidy

      I say all the time, birds of the same feathers flocks together

  • sidy

    So if any cheating disrespectful husband’s lust after you because you are a woman, you must be a whole eh?

  • sidy

    When as kenya proclaim she want Apollo, or anyone actually testify they caught them together? I have been married for 20 years, and I still base my judgment on fact, I don’t go about acting crazy jealous because I suspected my husband is looking at another woman, some of the secrets to happy marriage is trust, communication, loyalty, which we can all see is not present in Apollo and phedrea marriage.

  • Schelita

    Apollo = A DISGRACE! Not worthy to be called Phaedra’s husband. How much should a woman have to take from a man like this. Now he is on Instagram promoting club appearances instead of spending all of his time with his family before he goes to prison.