On Lifetime tonight Big Women Big Love airs with an all new Wednesday January 14, season 1 episode 3 called “Supersize Your Love Life,” and we have your weekly recap below. On tonight’s episode, the women become friends–and enemies–at the dating seminar in LA.
On the last episode, the women traveled to LA for a dating seminar where Jenn and Jessica got into a heated argument. Meanwhile, Kristi got wild on the dance floor. Did you watch the last episode? If you missed it, we have a full and detailed recap right here for you.
On tonight’s episode as per the Lifetime synopsis, “The women become friends–and enemies–at the dating seminar in LA. Kristi breaks down after being shown how wild she acts around men and Mar gets upset when Jessica steals her man in the club.”
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Jenn storms off crying, and Jessica doesn’t care because she prides herself on losing weight and won’t be ashamed of anything she worked so hard on.
Mar sympathizes with her and decides to go and try to comfort Jenn. “Jessica’s a bitch,” she says, feeling that Jessica was judging Jenn and being holier-than-thou.
She tells Jenn that if she ever wants to lose weight, that’s her choice but if she’s happy she doesn’t have to. Jenn says she isn’t, and them talking about it made her feel insecure. Jenn says she learned she needs to love herself at whatever size she is, and that she feels the way the other women were talking implied otherwise.
Meanwhile, Jessica is still at the table preaching, talking about how it felt to finally be able to close her legs at the knee, and how she was unhappy not being able to wear cute clothes and being uncomfortable at the club.
Jenn comes back to the table to clear the air and say she respects the other women and she hopes they can start anew.
Kristi is still here to have a good time, drinking like a fish and hitting on a hot black guy named Clinton. She pulls out baby oil, and the guy leaves. “I speak three languages fluently: English, sarcasm and sexual innuendo,” she says.
Jessica says she’s just fortunate she doesn’t have to share a room with Jenn, and may not have to see her tomorrow. She decides she’s going to spend time with the other women she definitely meshes with.
The next day, at breakfast, Jenn says she wishes she had bacon and Jessica says “that’s wrong, this is the best muffin.”
Jessica says she is at this seminar for some clarity as to why losing 110 pounds did not fix her love life.
At the seminar, the presenter is thin, which confuses all of the women. The presenter gives an example of men in the past saying they wouldn’t date her because she was black. Then she gives dating advice about dating, saying they need clear relationship goals.
The women are asked to look into a mirror and talk about what they see. Mar tells herself that she takes herself for granted, that she’s insecure.She says she needs to love herself a lot more, and that’s the only way she’ll be able to get over Richie.
Jenn says she doesn’t know her own worth, is her own worst enemy and has a bully inside of herself that she uses to harm herself.
Kristi says she’s in love with a man who will never treat her the way she deserves to be treated. She says he’s the first one who ever said he would hold her, and that’s why she fell in love with him.
Jessica says she tends to be the mean girl because it’s been done, and if she’s mean first no one can be mean to her. She says she’s afraid to be vulnerable. Jessica says she forgets that she wasn’t always 110 pounds down. (Jenn remarks in the confessional that Jessica seems to think she’s skinnier than all the rest of them, but she isn’t.)
Sabrina says she didn’t have a full-length mirror until a week and a half ago, until she realized that there was nothing wrong with herself or the way she looks.
A man presents to give the “man’s perspective.” He reveals that men who were flirting with the women the night before gave remarks on them, which have been recorded.
A man who talked to Jessica says she made him feel “emasculated” (sexist) by “dominating” (sexist) the conversation and talking about her weight loss too much. Jessica agrees with everything the man has to say.
Clinton, the guy Kristi was flirting with, says that one thing that turned him off was how crazy she got when she was drinking. “I think I could have slept with her that night,” he says.
Kristi says if she wants to have sex she will and she didn’t need any liquor to act that way. The man says people are judgmental and people will see her drinking and being loud and think of her as a “one-night-stand girl” (sexist).
“Don’t get defensive. Just take it,” he says. Kristi storms out, rightfully, at this ridiculous display of misogyny. Jessica says she knew Kristi was going to storm out.
“She has a moment right now, she’s walking out,” the man says. The man keeps going on with his messy speech, telling them to make men ‘feel like men’ and not to ‘give it up’ until the guy ‘walks the walk.’
Mar calls Jenn saying she got a text from Richie saying he’s thinking of her. Jenn says that means he’s bored and trying to hook up.
Now that the seminar has come to a close, the women decide to have a good time and go clubbing. At the club, people are looking at them while they’re dancing, but they don’t care.
A hot guy comes up to their party and Jessica immediately starts dancing on him, pulling him by his tie away from all the other women.
Mar finds a guy to dance with, and Jessica tries to back up on him and snatch him. She succeeds, and Mar goes back to the table pissed. However, Jenn tells her that the guy is gay and she feels better.
In the car, the women confront her and she says she isn’t stealing their husbands or boyfriends. She continues to talk, dominating the conversation and not letting anyone speak. Sabrina tells her it is not the Jessica Show and she needs to let other people talk and have things to say.
“I am so over this fat girl bonding thing,” Jessica says. She says she understands that everyone is not where she is, but she is sick of dealing with “weak-minded” individuals.
She tells the other women she has never had trouble getting a man and that she has always been a dominant person. All of the other women are sick of listening to her rambling.
Jessica says Jenn is “looking like a marshmallow Peep” in her hot pink bathing suit.
While the other women swim and have fun, Jessica storms off. “I just don’t wanna be in the big girl crew,” she says.
THE END!
